Do you have someone you can’t forget? If you’re letting someone live rent-free in your mind and heart, you might as well close the deal with them ASAP. But talking to your crush is never easy; you can be mute and things can easily go off the rails.
Being young and in love is one of life’s most adventurous experiences, but don’t let infatuation get your tongue around. Building conversational chemistry is an art that takes time to learn. To get things going, here are 24 questions to ask your lover the next time you’re together.
Loving Questions to Ask Your Crush
Remember to keep flirting casual. Don’t be too loud and don’t seem like you have any other goal than trying to get to know your crush better. Going too fast is a mistake many young adults make.
Here are some fun questions to help you start a stimulating conversation:
#1. How can someone like you stay single from a distance?
#2. What do you think of a girl who takes the first step?
Deep questions to ask your crush
Once you start talking about the deep stuff, slow down your pace. Ask some interesting questions, but try to listen more than ask questions. Your crush shouldn’t feel like you’re leading the conversation. An organic deep conversation will help bring you closer.
Here are some ideas of things to talk about that aren’t too suggestive but can get you into your crush’s mind:
#3. Can you tell me something you’ve never told anyone else?
#4. What does a happy and healthy relationship look like to you?
Dirty questions to ask your crush
Nothing says you’re interested and attracted to someone than asking them dirty questions about their sexual preferences. Being open about sexuality can be very healthy and rewarding at the start of a relationship. It also suggests that you are confident and someone who pursues what they want.
If your conversation naturally turns to sex, don’t be afraid to sound bold and try to figure out what kind of things you’re into.
#5. What’s the weirdest place you’ve ever laughed?
#6. What is your greatest excitement?
Weird questions to ask your crush
Never start a conversation with weird questions. But if you’re sure your crush has warmed to you and there’s a spark, don’t be afraid to bring it there. As mentioned earlier, boldness can be attractive.
Here are some super weird questions to ask your crush, especially if your crush is also a freak like you:
#7. How do you feel about having an open relationship?
#8. If I dare you to kiss me, would you?
Questions to Ask Your Text Crush
Your first long conversations with your crush are likely to start with text messages. But the problem with texting is that your tone of voice isn’t always clear. It’s best to avoid flirting or asking weird questions and talk about normal things over text instead.
Focus on getting to know your crush.
#9. Do you think a boy and a girl can be friends without having feelings?
#ten. If you could ask me one question, and I had to answer honestly, what would it be?
Cute questions to ask your crush
Here are some cute questions to ask your crush that will make you look innocent and might make you look adorable.
#11. What makes you smile even on the worst days?
#12. What’s the most moving scene you’ve ever seen in a movie?
Intimate questions to ask your crush
Feeling reluctant about your crush is natural. But if you ever want to take the next step, you’ll have to open up a bit. Achieving intimacy is never easy, but talking about the things that matter to you is the best place to start.
Here are some intimate questions to ask your crush to get closer:
#13. What song do you think of when you think of me?
#14. If we only had one more night together, how would you like us to spend that time?
Questions to Ask Your Crush to Get to Know Them
All it takes is a little sliver of information about your crush to completely change the way you see them. Knowing more about them before you make your move is prudent thought.
Here are some questions to ask your lover to get to know them better, get an idea of their life priorities, and what they can mean to you in the future if you pursue this:
#15. Would you rather find the love of your life or be a millionaire?
#16. What is the most important thing for you in relationships?
Romantic questions to ask your crush
Although you’re never supposed to be upfront about your goal, remember that you have one. It’s good to get some clarification on your crush’s idea of romance so you know you’re on the same page.
Here are some questions to get an idea of what your partner is looking for in a relationship:
#17. How do you know if you’ve fallen in love with someone?
#18. What do you imagine doing with your partner that you have never done before?
Yes or no questions to ask your crush
Ironically, the questions with the shortest answers tell you the most about a person. Yes or no type questions can cut to the chase, so make sure your crush feels comfortable with you before asking them. Also, don’t ask too many yes or no type questions, as they might start to seem tedious and interrogative.
#19. Have you ever used dating apps?
#20. Do you like being friends with benefits?
Fun questions to ask your crush
Everyone has embarrassing or funny stories that they like to share. Maybe you could share some of your own funny stories to make your crush feel comfortable. Here are some examples of fun questions to ask your lover:
#21. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever done to get a crush’s attention?
#22. What would your exes say about you if I asked them?
“Would You Rather” Questions to Ask Your Crush
“Would You Rather” is a game you can spend hours playing and laughing at. Having a similar sense of humor and being able to share a laugh is important in all kinds of relationships, even non-sexual ones.
#23. Would you rather go back in time to get to know me longer, or just spend more time together in the future?
#24. Would you rather never be able to wear sweatpants again or have to wear sequins all the time?